It always starts with one word
First, somebody told it,
Then the room couldn’t hold it,
So the busy tongues rolled it
Till they got it outside.
Then the crowd came across it,
And never once lost it,
But tossed it and tossed it,
Till it grew long and wide.
This lie brought forth others,
Dark sisters and brothers,
And fathers and mothers–
A terrible crew.
And while headlong they hurried,
The people they flurried,
And troubled and worried,
As lies always do.
And so evil-bodied,
This monster lay goaded,
Till at last it exploded
In smoke and in shame.
Then from mud and from mire
The pieces flew higher,
And hit the sad victim
And killed a good name.
I am looking forward to the day when people would realize that they should never say anything about anybody behind their back. I hope people will realize that if they can not say something about somebody in their presence, they cannot say it at all to anybody else. By overlooking this simple principle, some people have destroyed homes, families, relationships and churches. It only takes one word to kill a good name. This is the very thing Paul warns against:
2 Thessalonians 3:11
For we hear that some among you walk in idleness, not busy at work, but busybodies.
1 Timothy 5:13
Besides that, they learn to be idlers, going about from house to house, and not only idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not.
The tricky part about gossip for the christian is that it sometimes starts out like a prayer request for its victim. But we all know it is not really a prayer request; it is just a religious cover up to tear somebody down. Also, the one listening to this little talk does not realize that he/she is as responsible for the damage that is going to happen to the one they are talking about.
Gossip, lies, slander usually hurt others; I pray we would be a little more loving toward other – because at the end of the day – it all comes down to whether we truly love our neighbors as ourselves.
Go Deeper:
How do you stop yourself from talking about others behind their backs? What’s your secret, how do you stay victorious?
How do you protect yourself from listening and entertaining little talk about others?
How would you counsel and comfort a friend who is a victim of slander or gossip?
Source of Poem: Unknown







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