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It always starts with one word
First, somebody told it,

Then the room couldn’t hold it,

So the busy tongues rolled it

Till they got it outside.

Then the crowd came across it,

And never once lost it,

But tossed it and tossed it,

Till it grew long and wide.

This lie brought forth others,

Dark sisters and brothers,

And fathers and mothers–

A terrible crew.

And while headlong they hurried,

The people they flurried,

And troubled and worried,

As lies always do.

And so evil-bodied,

This monster lay goaded,

Till at last it exploded

In smoke and in shame.

Then from mud and from mire

The pieces flew higher,

And hit the sad victim

And killed a good name.

I am looking forward to the day when people would realize that they should never say anything about anybody behind their back. I hope people will realize that if they can not say something about somebody in their presence, they cannot say it at all to anybody else. By overlooking this simple principle, some people have destroyed homes, families, relationships and churches. It only takes one word to kill a good name. This is the very thing Paul warns against:

2 Thessalonians 3:11

For we hear that some among you walk in idleness, not busy at work, but busybodies.

1 Timothy 5:13

Besides that, they learn to be idlers, going about from house to house, and not only idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not.

The tricky part about gossip for the christian is that it sometimes starts out like a prayer request for its victim. But we all know it is not really a prayer request; it is just a religious cover up to tear somebody down. Also, the one listening to this little talk does not realize that he/she is as responsible for the damage that is going to happen to the one they are talking about.

Gossip, lies, slander usually hurt others; I pray we would be a little more loving toward other – because at the end of the day – it all comes down to whether we truly love our neighbors as ourselves.

Go Deeper:

How do you stop yourself from talking about others behind their backs? What’s your secret, how do you stay victorious?

How do you protect yourself from listening and entertaining little talk about others?

How would you counsel and comfort a friend who is a victim of slander or gossip?

Source of Poem: Unknown

Influence


Are you in a position of influence? How do you use it? How do you see it understand it? How does it stack up with authority and power? The following is a collection of thoughts that can shape your thinking on the subject:

“He who has great power should use it lightly.” – Seneca

“I strongly believe that the responsibility of leadership is to shape the debate—to practice and project the right attributes—whether in a business enterprise, in our society, and even in our religions.” — Farooq Kathwari

“Ill can he rule the great that cannot reach the small.” — Edmund Spenser

“In the past a leader was a boss. Today’s leaders must be partners with their people … they no longer can lead solely based on positional power.” — Ken Blanchard

“No man is good enough to govern another man without that other’s consent.” — Abraham Lincoln
“The key to successful leadership today is influence, not authority.” — Kenneth Blanchard

“There is no power on earth that can neutralize the influence of a high, simple, and useful life.” — Booker T. Washington

“What makes leadership is the ability to get people to do what they don’t want to do and like it.” — Harry Truman

“What you cannot enforce, do not command.” – Sophocles

“You don’t lead by pointing and telling people some place to go. You lead by going to that place and making a case.” — Ken Kesey

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Resource: Leadership Quotes

The Stick that keeps me Grounded


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Could it be, that the very thing you are pleading with the Lord to remove is the very thing that was meant to bless you… the very thing that was meant to keep you grounded?

So to keep me from becoming conceited because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to harass me, to keep me from becoming conceited. Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

ESV 2 Corinthians 12:7-10

What was the thorn in Paul’s flesh? This question has been for a long time the subject of debate and speculation. The following is a list of what scholars and preachers think the thorn in Paul’s flesh is:

  • Tertullian thought it was a headache
  • Klausner believed it was epilepsy
  • Ramsay identified it as recurrent malarial fever
  • Chrysostom said it was ‘all the adversaries of the Word
  • John Calvin made it ‘fleshly temptation
  • Martin Luther considered it ‘spiritual temptation
  • John Knox decided it was ‘infirmities of the mind
  • Catholic commentators generally say ‘lustful thoughts
  • McGarvey: ‘acute, disfiguring ophthalmia
  • Macknight spoke of some who believed it was ‘the false teachers
  • Lightfoot suggested ‘blasphemous thoughts of the devil
  • Alexander was sure it was ‘Malta fever’

I believe Paul’s ‘thorn’ was an acute disfiguring ophthalmia. Gal. 4:15 sounds like a great verse to prove my point (“I am sure you would have taken out your own eyes and given them to me if it had been possible”), but I am not going to waste your time arguing that. Because that is not the purpose of the story.

The real treasure in this story actually lies in the meaning of the word ‘thorn’ and the purpose for which the ‘thorn’ was given in the first place. The word thorn is rendered ‘stick’ as in the sticks used to anchor tents in the ground so that they are stable.

I don’t think Paul is using the word lightly, because as a tent maker, he was more than familiar with building tents and making them secure and stable. Furthermore, this ‘thorn’ had a purpose. The purpose was to keep Paul grounded and rooted, from becoming conceited and proud because of all the glorious revelations he was receiving.

Before he understood the purpose of this – thorn, Paul apparently didn’t like what was happening to him and asked God to take it away. He was actually asking God to take away the very thing that was meant to keep him grounded. But when he understood what God was up to, he welcomed the purpose.

Sometimes, when we go through difficult trials and tribulations, we fail to realize that those trails and tribulations are meant to make us stronger, better, wiser. stable and humble. It’s like being put through the fire. It is not comfortable, but like gold, we come out refined and ready for the master’s glory.

Sometimes trials have a purpose – so, don’t fight it – let it have its way, it will do you good.

What happens to those who have never heard the gospel?


Sooner or later, everybody exploring Christianity wrestles with this issue. It can be especially difficult for a seeker because it raises suspicions about the very character of God. The question goes like this: If Jesus is the only way to God, what about all the innocent people who have never heard about Christ? Would God really punish them for something that wasn’t their fault?

Sometimes people raise this question as an avoidance maneuver; they look for difficult theological questions to validate their unwillingness to believe. But many skeptics have genuine concerns about worshiping a God who, from their perspective, is so unjust. Thus, we should not take the issue lightly, but seek to better understand how the Bible addresses it.

It’s important to recognize that the Bible offers little direct or sustained instruction on this matter. Related topics are discussed, which are helpful for constructing some valuable inferences, but the lack of direct attention suggests we should hold our conclusions tenuously. In addition, it’s misleading to use the word “innocent” when describing people who have never heard about Christ.

Like all other humans, they are sinful (Romans 3:10-12) and in need of forgiveness for their sins. So what is the plight of those who are so isolated (geographically or culturally) that they have not heard the gospel message or been given any opportunity to respond?  The New Testament asserts that the work of Christ is the only way to a right relationship with God (John 14:6, Acts 4:12).

There is only one mediator between God and humans: Jesus Christ (1 Timothy 2:5). This is clear. Passage after passage in the New Testament presents Christ as coming to earth, dying on a cross, rising from the dead, and offering his life, death, and resurrection to all who would want to be restored to their heavenly Father. If there were other ways to God, then Christ’s sacrifice would have been in vain.

However, we should understand that Christ’s work is the basis for salvation. People receive this gift of grace when they accept it by faith, hence the passion Christians have for sharing their faith with others. But some Christian scholars have suggested that there may be special circumstances where God applies Christ’s atoning work to individuals who were, for various reasons outside their control, prevented from knowing about Christ. For example, God may be gracious to infants who die at an early age or those who are mentally incapable of hearing and understanding the gospel message.

In this sense, they are reconciled to God “through” Christ, but not in conjunction with an explicit affirmation of faith. Could it be the same for individuals who have not heard simply because of when and where they were born, and whom God discerns would respond positively if they did have the opportunity?

To be honest, we don’t know for sure. Perhaps this is not the case, and therefore it is imperative that Christians continue to share their message of hope with others. Perhaps God is so gracious to judge people based on what they could possibly know and nothing more. But this would not diminish a sense of urgency for both seekers and Christians. Transformation and a purpose in this life remains a motivation to place our trust in Christ and share the good news with others.

Ultimately, we trust that God is good, loving, just, and fair. The Bible says that, “the LORD is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love” (Psalm 145:8 TNIV). He does not want any to live self-destructive lives, but for all to turn from their sin and be reconciled to him (2 Peter 3:9). Therefore, we are faced with two choices. Will we trust him? And will we help others come to trust him?

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Position Papers

How to deal with the CRITICS


TO: waltbrite@yahoo.com

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Yelp.com - Your Business on Yelp

 The Positive Side of Negative Reviews

This IS AN EMAIL I RECEIVED FROM YELP some time ago.
In it there is a call for business owners to take negative reviews and
used them to improve their business.
My question is how can a
believer take negative criticisms and use them to their advantage?

Is there something to gain from
negative feedback? According to
celebrity chef Gordon Ramsay and a
group of business owners from across
the country, the answer is yes.
Approximately 80% of the reviews on
Yelp are positive, but even the best
businesses can get hit with negative
reviews.
The reason is simple: It’s
impossible to please everyone 100%
of the time. How do these business
owners use negative reviews to
improve their business
and get even more customers?
I don’t know if you have ever been criticized or received negative remarks from friends, family and co-workers. How do you react to them? Is there anything you can learn from them? Or do you just get supper mad at your critics. How can you turn these negatives into positives?
1. Don’t take it personal.
Grant me prudence to avoid him who flatters me, and to endure patiently
him who contradicts me. Thomas ‘a Kempis
What?
Yeah, I agree with you, that was my reaction to the above quote. For me, it is always personal when somebody judges and criticizes me. They probably don’t like me, my accent, hairdo, the car I drive or the way I laugh. It is probably personal for them, but should not be for me. They are probably jealous of me, my good looks, six packs, mustache, intelligence, my style, my swag or maybe my success. It is personal for them, but should not for me. Here is why!
Whether you like it or not – you should expect to get some negative feedback from people in your life circle. It is okay when it is from your friend but even better if it is from the guy who really doesn’t like you. Keep in mind that you cannot please everyone 100% of the time.
Criticism is really painful, but when received with humility and a willingness to learn from it , it can change your lives.
2. Remind yourself quickly that what I just told you to do is not easy to do – humanly speaking. But, isn’t it great that we can find the strength we need, when we need it the most?
I’m reminded every time I feel like I can’t do something – that :
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.   Philippians 4:13
Quite frankly, when I’m criticized by others, I usually, every time rehearse in my mind how I am going to get back. I tend to hold grudges sometimes, and might become very cold toward that person. So Reminding myself that I can tap into God’s power is a good thing – because it immediately drives me to my knees and helps me to rest upon the grace and power of God.
This is where the rubber meets the road. Are you going to return to the old habits of revenge
and counter attacks or are you going to ask the Lord to give you strength? Are you going to resort to anger and bitterness or challenge yourself to deal with it in a godly humble way. I trust that you will turn to the Lord for help.
As always, please share with me your insights – they are of value to me!

Let the Lord be your Pace Setter: Psalm 23 for busy people


I thought I will share this one again, mostly a prayer for me, cause I am supper busy. I will make it a prayer for you too. Be blessed!

Psalm 23 For Busy People

The Lord is my Pace Setter, I shall not rush,

He makes me stop and rest for quiet intervals,

He provides me with images of stillness,

Which restore my serenity.

He leads me in ways of efficiency,

through calmness of mind; and his guidance is peace.

Even though I have a great many things to carry out each day,

I will not fret, for his presence is here.

His timelessness, his all-importance will keep me in balance.

He prepares refreshment and renewal in the midst of my activity,

by anointing my head with his oils of tranquility,

My cup of joyous energy overflows.

Surely harmony and effectiveness shall be the fruit of my hours,

For I shall walk in the pace of my Lord,

and dwell in his house for ever.

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-Mariam Wright Edelman

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Pablum From the Pit.


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Cootchie, cootchie, cootchie-coo,
God loves me and God loves you!
Smile sinner, don’t be sad;
God’s not angry; He’s not mad.
Even when you leave the path,
There’s no hell and there’s no wrath.
So don’t you fear, just do your best.
The Judgment Seat won’t be that tough.
For you can’t sin away His grace
Or take that smile from His face.
’Cause God is love and love is good:
He’ll treat you like you think He should!
Just trust me, sinner, to the end.
My name is Satan, I’m your friend.

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Michael L. Brown/ Excerpt From Article

Going Not knowing?


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Apparently, the experts on all thing ‘Men’ say that men find it difficult to ask for directions – especially when they are lost driving the wife or family to a very important meeting, a vacation destination or anywhere for that matter.

I don’t really know if it is a man thing, but some suggest that men feel less manly asking for directions. I don’t know about you, but it doesn’t bother me at all, to stop at a gas station and just simply ask for help. I rather do that than drive around wearing my ego on my shoulder acting as if I know where I am going.

Fortunately, technology has given us Garmin, Magellin, Furuno, TomTom, iCOM, Lowrance, RayMarinem DeLorme GPS devices to help us navigate around and be able to reach our destination and not get lost.

These devices also assure us that no matter where you are,  if you miss your turn, you can rest assured that your device is going to recalculate your place to set you right back on track. You will hear that voice – ‘Recalculating, Recalculating.’

Having a GPS device in your car is like having your heavenly Father’s constant guidance in your life. He guides us, directs us, leads us and helps us navigate our way through obstacles and turbulent times.

He helps us go through the valleys of life, pass through the raging waters of life, making every crocked path straight to help us stay on the right path and make the best decisions for our future.

Even when we lose our way, he sets us right back on track.

Whether you acknowledge it or not, we all need directions to safely get to our destination. And your heavenly Father has promised to be there for you. Don’t freak out if you miss a turn, it is not  the end of the world. Just listen for his voice. You will ‘hear a voice behind saying, ‘this is the way walk in it’.”

Start the journey today!

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Read More: Psalm 107:7; Deuteronomy 32:10-12; Isaiah 46:4; Psalm 23:3; Psalm 23:4; Isaiah 58:11; Psalm 48:14; Job 36:22

Building Blocks of Faith


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But you, dear friends, by building yourselves up in your most holy faith and praying in the Holy Spirit, keep yourselves in God’s love as you wait for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ to bring you to eternal life. Be merciful to those who doubt;  save others by snatching them from the fire; to others show mercy, mixed with fear—hating even the clothing stained by corrupted flesh

Jude 1:20-22

 Prayer in the Spirit
keep yourselves in the Love of God
waiting the second coming
show mercy toward doubters
snatch others form the fire
hate sin
rely on God’s power

Please let me share a few words base on this outline:

Prayer in the Spirit is God’s call to take our prayer to another level. I believe that prayer in the Spirit, is the highest level of prayer you can ever reach. It is the Spirit of the Lord praying through you with “groans that word cannot express.” Those times when we know not what to pray for, the Spirit of God intercedes on our behalf.

We are also told by Jude to “keep ourselves in the love of God. We need to live in a daily revelation of the love of God. We must never lose sight of his love. It is his love that brought us thus far and only that love will lead you on.

I love the passage in 1 Cor. 15:19 that says, “If only for this life we have hope in Christ, we are of all people most to be pitied.” Friend, this world is not our home, we just passing through, we must stop living our lives as if we have no hope of living with God in eternity. We can not continue to live our lives as if we are enemies of the cross.

I knew a preacher in the 80’s, a man used mightily by God. But he was very critical of others. He would call out his fellow christian brothers and shame them on his television programs. He was not very merciful toward anyone. So when he fell from grace, no one showed him mercy. Blessed are the merciful for they shall receive mercy.

Friends, this world is in for a brutal and tragic end without Jesus. People are going to die and go to hell if we don’t do something about it.  Hell is not a place for anyone to go. It is a dreadful place made for the devil and his minions (sorry if you love Despicable Me – I happen to as well). Human beings were created to enjoy eternity with God. Look around, people need the Lord, we have to do something about it.

John Owen once said, “be killing sin or sin will be killing you.” Friends we must hate sin. I understand that there is pleasure in sin, but what we fail to understand is that it is a double edge sword. It is deceptive and can come back to harm you. Hate sin because it is your worst enemy.

Finally, Jude calls upon us to rely on God’s power. In this life, in this thing call faith, we cannot rely on our own strength. If we do, we are going to fail. We need the power of God. Paul says, it is “like his mighty power working in us to will and to do according to his good pleasure.” Tap into that kind of power – that’s how you build up your faith.